pajama parties - not just for kids!

Last night my friends and I had a pajama party! We've been getting together to watch Masterpiece Theater - saw all the Jane Austen series, watched Tess of the d'Urbervilles and are now on to Wuthering Heights. Having joked about this a couple of weeks ago, last night was PJs required. S0, there we were, a group of women in our 50s, drinking wine and having lovely snacks, watching Heathcliff and Cathy - in our PJs. Lovely! Why should all the fun be wasted on kids!

The Library

I just have to say that I love our public library! For awhile I got into the habit of buying books I wanted to read and now have shelves of books that I'll never read again taking up all that space. We have books everywhere, in every room, many on shelves but many in bags and boxes and stacked on furniture! I've been sorting through them and taking bags of books - to the library! The Friends of the Library has big sales several times a year and now has an on-going sale just inside the door of the library on a big bookshelf. They raise a decent amount of money that they use for programs and to buy books and other things the library budget can't provide.

While carting yet another bag of books to the library for their sale I realized that continually buying more books was kind of dumb. Now I only buy books that I want to have on my shelf, books that I might want to read more than once, books that I want to own for whatever reason. The rest - I check out of the library. I love that I can sit at home and look at the catalog (though there are times when I love to browse the shelves and hold books in my hand and leaf through them) and put books on hold. I finally realized that if I want to read the No. 1 Ladies Detective Agency series in order, all I have to do is put them on hold. Miraculously, I get emails saying my book is ready for pickup at my local library, 2 blocks away. Usually it's quick, but right now I'm #84 in line for Revolutionary Road so we'll see how long that one takes.

Saves time, saves money, saves gas, saves paper - what more could I want?

resolutions/habits

Resolutions for the new year always seem kind of artificial and lame. This time I'm going to try to develop new habits, one or two per month. January - eat my vegetables first and use my calendar. I'm calendar-challenged - just ask my husband! This will help me be more organized and will help the rest of the family so there are no surprises. In an effort to develop healthier habits, eating my vegetables first seems like a good idea. Fill up on broccoli and asparagus and then the pasta won't be calling my name. Well, it'll still be calling my name, but maybe it'll be whispering...

potterheads unite!

Harry Potter! Need I say more?

Stewardship Thoughts

As I’ve been reading the passages from Luke in the Daily Message recently, I’ve been struck by how often the word “generous” is used. Be generous; give to the poor. Be generous; ask for just what you need. Be generous…. These passages are striking a chord with me because I am dealing with an overload of material possessions. The concept of “trying to deal with the clutter” is an overarching theme in my life and my friends laugh when they hear me say it, again. Like many people these days, I have WAY more than just what I need – shelves of books, stacks of papers, boxes of things in the garage and basement.

I find myself wondering if this is really good stewardship. The papers just need to be filed or recycled, and I’ve made progress on this. The bigger issue is the stuff we have sitting in the garage. A lot of it belonged to my parents and it either just stayed here when my parents moved out and we moved in or I brought it when we cleaned out my mother’s apartment. And it still sits in boxes.

I’ve started collecting lists of places to unload things: books to Friends of the Library, postings on Berkeley Parents Network or freecycle.org, things to Goodwill or CARH. I’ve found inspiration and resources in books and on line. My current favorite tool is FlyLady.net. For me, her idea of doing things in small steps is working, at least a little bit. And the idea that finding a new home for things you don’t need, don’t use, or don’t love is really blessing someone else who can use it helps me let go of some of these things.

I’m slowly unearthing treasures, box by box. I can use my grandmother’s teacups for our next book club meeting. I will use my mother’s Christmas teapot next December. I’ve given away bags of books and clothes and things. But the pink-flowered bowls from my great-aunt sit on my kitchen shelf. I’ve never liked them, I still don’t like them, and I’m working on being able to let them go.

When’s the next church rummage sale?

clutter is taking over my life!

In a moment of madness, I sent in a Stewardship Moments blurb for the church newsletter that owns up to the fact that I have way too much crap. My only goal this summer is to deal with it. So now it's July 19 and I'm still drowning in clutter. However, I've done the following:
5 bags of books to the Friends of the Library
5 large bags of clothing to CARH
1 load of cardboard to recycling
2 extra bags of paper for curbside pickup
an ever-growing pile in the driveway, headed for the dump.

I just cleared out one side of the entry way, most to recycling. Now, onward to the vacuum!